Sometimes you can walk away from a first date without really finding much out about the person you’re dating. If you ask these three key questions, though, you’ll learn plenty.

What do you do in your spare time?

If you’re dating someone who has lots of interests outside work, they will love to talk about their hobbies.

This is also a great way to find out if you have a lot in common with the person you are dating. It’s important to find this out because shared interests can often make or break a relationship.

For example, if your main interest is in extreme sports but they mainly read novels in their spare time and have not participated in any sport since the age of 13, you may find this difference causes problems further down the line.

On the other hand, opposites can attract