Confidence with women may not be your forte. Maybe it’s stuttering. Maybe it’s just you being shy around women. Or may the good Lord help you if you just stiffen up and talk like a robot when a woman gets within twenty yards of you and looks straight at you. You may think you’re absolutely hopeless and useless when it comes to women.

That’s absolutely not true.

You really don’t need cool threads, a million-dollar everything, the face of a movie star or the charm of Casanova to be confident with women. All you need to do is work with what you’ve got inside you, and you’ll be able to talk to women as easily as counting one, two, three:

They’re human too

No, women aren’t literally from Venus. Sure they’re a bit different: they change their minds as often as a fly beats its wings, they have this weird obsession with fashion and they turn green every time they see someone more beautiful than them. But at the heart of it all, they’re still human

Put aside your notions and preconceptions about what women are supposed to be, and try to observe them for what they really are: they laugh, they cry, they feel anger, they feel love. They’ll get pissed off if you give them reason to, and they’ll giggle with joyful abandon if you give them reason to. They come in all sorts of sizes, shapes and personalities. Relax, and remember that they’re human too. Do that, and watch your confidence with women soar. But since they come in all sorts of different shapes and sizes, you’ve just got to accept one unchangeable fact