If you are trying to meet your new love online, think hard about the photo you post with your profile. According to a recent analysis by online dating site OkCupid, more men responded to women who posted pictures where they “flirted” with the camera than the women who merely smiled in the picture. And men who post “ab shots” receive more attention than men who don’t.

The website looked at more than 7,000 of its member photos to see which types of pictures received the most messages from other users.

Women who made eye contact but had a more closed mouth “flirting” with their eyes photos received more interest than women who sported big, friendly Julia Roberts-type smiles. Instead, try a more Mona Lisa, mysterious, flirtatious type smile.

The website said that women need to look at the camera no matter whether they are smiling or not. The absolute worst response received is when women look away from the camera smiling.

Conversely, the men who received the best response are the ones who look away from the camera and aren’t smiling. Go figure.

The website said maybe this because women want a little mystery in the man they date. Men who look into the camera and flirt fare OK. Bu men who look away from the camera in a flirtatious way fare the worst